What if I decide I am definitely ready?
What if I don't think I'm ready?
Then don't do it. You have the right to say no.
Many of us have because we think everyone else is. Or that we should do it, cos we've got a boyfriend - he'll expect it. Or that if we don't we're a prude. A prick tease. A baby.
So we do stuff we'd rather not.
Don't follow the herd. It's your body. Your decision. And how you feel about yourself after that counts.
If he breaks up with us because we won't have: that was all that mattered to him. So good riddance.
Posted by Gavuliani