am I Ready?

What if I decide I am definitely ready? Be sure he wants to. He may not. Fair enough. Make sure the condoms are packed. Better still, practice with a carrot before. Beats the first night nerves. We shouldn't rely on anyone to protect us. Our bodies are our responsibility. Buy a six pack. If you have second thoughts at any point, stop. Just because you've had once doesn't mean you have to keep on having it. Many people realise it's really not all it's cracked up to be. And shelve it for a while. What if I don't think I'm ready? Then don't do it. You have the right to say no. Many of us have because we think everyone else is. Or that we should do it, cos we've got a boyfriend - he'll expect it. Or that if we don't we're a prude. A prick tease. A baby. So we do stuff we'd rather not. Don't follow the herd. It's your body. Your decision. And how you feel about yourself after that counts. If he breaks up with us because we won't have: that was all that mattered to him. So good riddance. <<---Back